A Blog Is Your Voice. What You Do With It Is Up To You.

There’s a bit of a hullabaloo floating around the Internet concerning the Momdot mommy blogger network and their proposed PR Blackout for one week in August.

The topic is being  discussed on Twitter pretty vocally and bloggers and PR pros are coming out with their take on both sides of the argument.

Indeed, the flak got so bad that it led to a follow-up post on Momdot asking who’s more whiny, PR or bloggers?

I’m not going to get into the whole “she said, they said” argument as there’s enough of that in the comments of both Momdot blog posts, as well as via the Twitter discussion and other bloggers. The Momdot admins say it wasn’t an attack on PR per se, and reading the original post I believe them.

But here’s the thing.

While the reasoning behind the PR Blackout is sound – giving moms more time with their families and reclaiming their blogs – should it even have come to a blackout call in the first place?

A blog is, ultimately, your baby. Your voice; your home from home. What you do with it is up to you. It can be a personal blog, a business blog, or  you can try make income from it, either part-time as most review bloggers do, or full-time as a professional blogger. But the key thing is this.

It. Is. Up. To. You.

If you want to be a reviewer of products, you’ll be contacted by PR companies. If you want to make money blogging, it is going to be hard at times – it’s one of the sacrifices you make when working for yourself, knowing that hours are no longer straightforward nine-to-five.

Heck, even being “just a blogger” with no reviews and giveaways is hard work and why so many give it up within six months. But how hard blogging is is up to you.

You don’t have to say yes to every review. You don’t have to say yes to every PR pitch. Over at Momdot, Trish makes a point in her Last Word video message that for every one PR pitch you agree to, you get six more.

That’s only if you let that happen.

I know there are crappy PR pros that harass bloggers constantly with pitches, follow-up calls and deadline blackmail. They tell you that you’ll be taken off their blogger list and that their clients won’t be sent to you. Here’s what you do with PR “pros” like that:

Tell them to go f*ck themselves.

If they’re so crap at their jobs that they have to harass the people that are putting their clients in front of thousands of eyeballs, they’re not worth dealing with to start with. Let them go; find the great PR companies instead and work with them.

Make it even easier for yourself – have a visible page on your blog that explains to PR pros how to pitch you, and the process after that. If they can’t adhere to your instructions, then they only have themselves to blame for being blacklisted and ignored.

Blog communities need to do their bit too. If you’re hearing from your members that a PR agency is causing issues, speak with the agency in question and voice your concerns. Good PR pros know the importance of blogger relations – if they can’t accept and work with your concerns, then your duty lies with your bloggers. Stop accepting that agency’s pitches and blacklist them and only put your bloggers in touch with approved agencies.

The buzz (for and against) the Momdot PR Blackout shows there is a growing problem with burned out review bloggers and that’s sad. No-one likes to hear of people’s health and relationships suffering.

But a little bit of me can’t help but feel that if you keep control of your blog, the issues being talked about at the minute would be a lot less visible. No?

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Danny Brown is the owner of Press Release PR, a boutique agency specializing in search engine optimized press releases and social media PR. He offers consultancy advice on social media and PR to both individuals and corporations He has guest authored at leading web and search marketing site Web Analytics World and is a blog partner of the WebProNews and iEntry business networks. He is also a regular contributor to the Dad-o-Matic project.

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September 2nd, 2009 at 3:36 pm

so people can hear you not just read your writing.?

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Comment by used tires

October 1st, 2009 at 11:18 am

Just like anything in life, and like when you own a business it is up to you to control it. I think if done right you can definitely have alot more control and be able to say no to reviews.

Till then,

Jean

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October 29th, 2009 at 11:15 am

Its upon us however we handle it we get that type of result on it in the face of profit and loss.

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Comment by used tires

January 1st, 2010 at 10:22 pm

Sorry to post again here, but why does alot of your posts say “Sorry, the comment form is closed at this time.”? There are some great posts that I would like to leave a comment in but can’t :(

Till then,

Jean

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Comment by used tires

March 17th, 2010 at 9:40 am

Just like someone said, with great power comes great responsibility. It’s the same with blogging, in many ways.

Till then,

Jean

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May 15th, 2010 at 2:08 am

@Jean I agree, I would love to comment on some of the other articles!!

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Comment by car battery

August 3rd, 2010 at 8:31 am

Well said. This is a common issue a lot of bloggers face. I know it’s hard to risk losing the patronage of a good PR firm. But if you’ve already taken on too much already, you might do a bad job for them and end up losing their patronage anyway. Better to postpone their offer for another day than do a bad job in the first place.

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December 6th, 2010 at 1:32 pm

It is the blogger’s final decision what they promote. If the PR is putting too much pressure, then it is time to find a new one. There are choices.

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December 9th, 2010 at 10:58 am

I agree. I know quite a few that have in fact up and left those who pressured them too much. But then again, the competition is also so much greater with each passing day that sometimes opportunities can be scarce too. So be careful about what you decide also.

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